justme asked:


My mother in law, sister in law, and best friend are planning a baby shower for me…but they are being top secret, I’m only allowed to know the date and that it is co-ed, and if one of them slips something and I mention it to one of the others, I get an attitude about it. If I ask questions I am told not to worry about it, I just have to show up. I find this a bit irritating. I am told that I am just going to need to let go and let them handle it. It’s not that I want control of it, I just want to know what is going on, and feel I should be involved. Is this wrong? Would it irritate you?
*** It’s not them going out of their way…I wasn’t even suppose to know the date, but one let it slip, and I have a birthday party that day. When I offer the addresses, I get told they have them already, which is impossible, and pretty presumptious, don’t you think? They were completely leaving people I would invite off. And neither my hubby or I wanted to send invites to grandparents he doesn’t talk to, instead birth announcements…feels too much like panhandling…And it isn’t about PRESENTS. That is what I keep getting told. “Be happy you get presents, invite everyone you’ve ever met”…how rude and presumpteous! I would never invite people I hardly now just to get presents. At the same time, I have a few close friends that are not associated with any of these ladies I would like to invite and they were to be left off the list. Is this wrong?
And it isn’t the surprise, but more the attitude I get when I ask a question about it. And I’m actually very even keel pregnat.
**And I am thankful…I didn’t have a shower with my daughter, and did everything myself, so I do appreciate it, just don’t like the attitude I am catching about details. FYI, my s-i-l seems to understand where I am coming from…

expertvillage asked:

Learn the Playdough game, a fun couples game for coed baby showers, in this free video.

booradley29 asked:


hi- i have a question about baby shower etiquette- is it still inappropriate to have a shower for a third child/children even if the third pregnancy is twins?

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im so reaaallyy sexxyy asked:


No money for baby shower gifts what should i do?
o.k i have everything set for baby shower but i dont have any money for the gifts for the winners who plays the games. what should i do?

Qing Gu asked:


There is no better way to celebrate a new arrival than to have a fun baby shower.

With a good plan and a little knowledge, your baby shower is bound to be a wonderful event that will leave lovely memories for everyone.

The traditional rule with a baby shower is that anyone can throw it except for the couple that are having the baby. And, the proper baby shower etiquette says that someone who is not related to the couple should throw the baby shower.

The reason for this is that it won’t look as though the family are asking for baby shower gifts.

But this isn’t necessarily true and we don’t always follow tradition anymore. It should be that anyone who is close to you and willing to plan a baby shower should do so.

A baby shower should preferably be held before the baby is actually born. It can be done afterwards but the atmosphere won’t be the same if the expectant mom doesn’t have her big belly. Baby showers are normally given between the seventh and the ninth month. It’s not a good idea to have the party too close to the due date just in case the baby arrives earlier than expected. But it is fun with a large belly, so you don’t want to do it too early, either.

Before any invitations are sent out, the mom-to-be needs to decide on a day that would suit her and also go through the guest list to make sure that no one has been left out.

If it is for a second or third baby, the guests would normally just be close friends and family. Normally, for any baby shower, it is just women who are invited. Traditionally, men were not normally invited, but it was quite common for the man to show at the end of the party to help his wife with the presents.

Now days, it seems that it is fine for men to a part of the baby shower.

Baby showers are quite commonly held at country clubs, parks, restaurants, bars or any other place where people are able to get together. It is, however, a bit more personal and more comfortable if it is held in someone’s house.

It is only fair that the person who is organizing or hosting the baby shower should pay for it. It should be considered as a gift to the mom-to-be. The rest of the gifts should be practical. As a baby shower could work out quite pricey, multiple people could throw the baby shower, which then helps with splitting the costs.

Any food can be served at a baby shower. It can be anything from finger foods, appetizers, candy on tables, to having full meals at restaurants. Gone are the days of having just light snacks. Often, people have a buffet with cold beverages, coffee, wine and other drinks. However, it is still standard to have a cake.

At the end of the day, baby showers are supposed to be fun, so have a good time.

Baby Girl 2/2/09 Aliya Nicole asked:


My Best friend and my mom are throwing me a baby shower. They hardly know each other and live in different towns but are trying to work together to host my baby shower. My shower is this Saturday and I was just thinking how I would like to do something nice for them because they are working so hard for me.
Without breaking the bank what are some creative Cute baby shower hostess gifts Or is that appropriate?
Thanks in advance!!

signabella asked:


We are planning my baby shower and are thinking of not doing any baby shower games. Were going to have a big dinner with drinks instead. I know a lot of people **** doing those stupid games (myself included). What are your thoughts?

C.L. Hendricks asked:


It is possible to find baby shower gifts for every budget.  No matter what your financial situation here are some ideas to help you find that perfect baby shower gift without breaking the bank. 

Inexpensive and Easy Baby Shower Gift Basket

A visit to your local dollar store will turn up a number of baby items (example: shampoo, oil, powder, lotion, socks, wipes, washcloths, bibs, bottles and hair bows). Place 5 or 6 dollar items in a basket that you picked up at the thrift store and spray painted a clean bright white.

Tie a pink or blue ribbon (also purchased at the dollar store) around the handle, tuck in a few sheets of colored tissue paper and you have a great baby shower gift basket.

 

Baby Shower Gifts Under $10:

Baby Bottles, Baby Powder and Oil, Baby Shampoo and Conditioner, Baby Wipes, Bibs, Blankets, Rattles, Socks and Washcloths, Baby Tylenol, Booties, Burp Cloth, Clothing, Diapers, Gas Drops,  Hooded Towel, Onesies, Pacifier, Rubber Duck, Teething Toys, Thermal Blanket and Thermometer

Baby Shower Gifts for $15 to $50:

Assortment of baby pharmacy items, Baby bathtub, Baby carrier, Baby monitor, Baby skin care items, Backpack for carrying baby, Basket with diapers and towels, Bath seats, blankets, Bottle warmer, Bouncy chair, Bumbo seat, Diaper bag, Diapers, Exersaucer, Formula, Head-to-toe outfit, Highchair, Layette, Mobile, Outfits, Picture frames, Play gym, sheets, Sink bathtub, Thermometer, and Value-pack size 1 or size 2 diapers & Value-pack wipes

Baby Shower Gifts for $50 to $100:

Activity centers, Baby Einstein DVDs, Baby monitor system, Baby rocker or jumper, Baby wash tub w/ towels, shampoos, body wash, lotions & Vaseline, Bassinet, Car seat, Carrying sling, Exersaucer, Gift cards for restaurants that will deliver, High chair, Jungle gym, Massage for the mom-to-be, Pack-n-Play, Playpen, Savings bond, Strollers, Swings and Walkers

Baby Shower Gifts over $100:

Baby bath tub (marble), Bed, Car seat, Changing table, Clothes, Corner playpen has 3 sides, fits nicely in the corner of a room), Cradle, Crib w/ mattress, Diaper service for first few months, Gift cards, Gift certificate for spa treatments for mom, Gift certificate to youth furniture store, Jogging stroller for new mommy fitness, Rocker glider, Rocking chair, Stroller and Swing

Finally, another source for baby shower gifts for every budget is the gift card. Gift cards can be purchased in any amount and are available at almost any store, spa or restaurant. They are often the perfect gift, because the parents can use them to buy those items they did not receive as gifts.

Mandie Klein asked:


Creative baby shower gifts are aplenty and within budget. You don’t have to break your bank just to get adorable little enchanted fairy tale carriage favor boxes to impress your friends who are going to be mommies soon. Read on for more creative ideas for baby shower gifts.

Getting Creative and Getting the Kudos

Shopping for creative baby shower gifts can be challenging, even to the most experienced moms and dads going to a baby shower or being given one. Why? They all experience that Jell-O in the arm feeling when faced with the daunting task of selecting that one gift that will bring on appreciative smiles. As parents, they want to give something both beautiful and practical, just like what they wanted when they got tons of baby gifts during the baby showers hosted for them.

Be creative. Shopping for baby gifts can be interesting. True, traditional baby shower gifts are appropriate for the occasion, but you can pull in a fast one by making these gifts truly creative, bearing your personal touch. How?

Traditional items like gift baskets can contain personalized bibs, booties, and even onesies. Hand-knitted blankets, picture frames, and piggy banks score a win when personalized, but what if you’re broke and looking at $25? You can’t welcome a special bundle of joy with a ho-hum gift that will gather dust or stay unused for years.

Lovely Baby Shower Gifts That Won’t Cost You

Don’t despair. There are baby shower gifts below $20 that won’t have you losing face when the mom-to-be opens the colorful package. Here are some creative baby shower gifts you’ll be happy to give:

* Beautiful and personalized burp cloths

* Gift sets with T-shirts, tank tops, pants, bib, cap and booties

* Charming keepsake boxes

* World’s Greatest Mommy things (e.g. cheese grater)

* Personalized baby mugs

* Four-piece gift sets

* Personalized baby pacifiers

* Bottle holders

* Monogrammed diaper bags

* Tot’s dish sets

Don’t be afraid to give non-traditional or creative baby shower gifts below $20. Clue in to items for baby travel, feeding and bath items, and items for a sick baby, just in case. You’ll also do well with breastfeeding support items for the mom such as ****** pads and lanolin ointment.

Baby travel items make for creative baby shower gifts - rubber duckies, disposable wash cloths, infant toiletry, and some goodies for the mom. Don’t forget to tuck in some pain relievers for both mom and dad; they’ll need these while on the road. You may want to try out those sick baby items that include a baby thermometer. This will be greeted with sighs of relief because moms-to-be often forget these essential items.

The Mommy/Daddy Agenda

Don’t get it wrong. Baby showers are also the time to pamper the moms-to-be. So if you are stumped with what to give for a baby who has yet to make an appearance, focus on the mom and dad. They’ll lap up all the attention you’ll shower on them with practical items like nifty bottle openers, key chains, votive candle holders, and scented bath oils.

Also, creative baby shower gifts do not mean you’ll have to get stuck with so-so items that have been used to death, or the usual baby shower gifts that are beyond your budget. Baby shower gifts under $25 can save you sleepless nights. So get up and go creative. Spoil mom and dad and the baby, too.