baby shower etiquette
Ross asked:


Hello,

I’ve never been invited to baby shower and the wife of my husband colleague is very kind to throw one for my coming baby. I don’t have any relatives around here, but I guess she will invite all other colleague/ partner wives to join in. I just wonder how much I should involve before the party. What am I supposed to do during the party? Do I need to bring or prepare anything to the party? And last, what is the propper etiqutte to do after the party is over. Should I try to collect every guests’ addresses, while in the party, to send them back the thank you cards? I probably don’t know all my husband’s collegue wives so far. (My husband has just changed to the new job). Should I invite them (the host) for the lunch 1-2 weeks before the party? Thanks for all answers.

Oct
22
baby shower etiquette
this2shallpass asked:


I am having my first baby and my friend said that she wants to throw me a shower. What exactly I am responsible for doing or paying for? I don’t expect her to have to do everything and pay for everything, but how exactly does it work?
baby shower etiquette
ILoveMyBabyPrincess asked:


My shower is may 17th from 2-5 pm my mom is hosting it. anyways my mom put an rsvp on it but didnt put when to rsvp by. when should they ideally rsvp by? any day before the 17th? and if people dont rsvp by the 15th or so should my mother or I call them and ask if theyre coming or not or just let them show up or not?
baby shower etiquette
Todd Lavergne asked:


Baby showers are extremely popular and are one custom that most mothers-to-be practice in many countries. A baby shower is a social event and not just for giving gifts. This is why some etiquette rules will need to be followed. There are varying degrees of etiquette that are followed from country to country but here are some more familiar ones.

1. A baby shower should be held someday before the birth. A common practice is to have it a month to two months before the birth. Some people have been changing this around and having the baby shower after the birth. The beneficial thing about having the party before the birth is that the mother can purchase items that are needed but not given at the baby shower.

2. Normally, someone who is a close friend will host the party for the mom-to-be. Family members and people that she works with are also known to host the baby shower.

3. A baby shower should be given for every baby and not just for the ones born first to mothers. A pregnancy is a cause to rejoice, so there is nothing wrong with throwing a baby shower for subsequent babies.

4. Giving gifts related to babies is the right thing to do. If you are not sure if it is a boy or girl then you can pick neutral colors to give as gifts. Choose gifts that are practical for the needs of the baby like wet wipes, diapers, clothes, and blankets.

5. The host might want to setup games to make it a more interactive event but it is not a necessity. The main thing that should be looked at is drinks, food, and something to keep the conversation interesting. One neat idea is to have a little book setup so guest can write a personalized note to the new mom.

6. The number of people that you can invite will vary according to the accommodations at the location that is chosen. Sometimes, a smaller party can be held before and then plan a larger one after the birth of the baby.

7. The weekend is a common time to have a baby shower since this is the easiest time for people to attend an event that last 2 to 3 hours usually. If everything is going great at the baby shower then the times might be extended.

8. The host will usually have the burden of the planning and cost of the shower but might want to collaborate with close friends.

9. The home of the host is a common place to have the party and makes things more relaxed. It is probably wise to inform the mom-to-be so as to not give her too much surprise and emotional distress.

10. An individually printed invitation is not a requirement. There are many stores taht sell greeting cards and stationery with baby themes. Sending the cards at least three weeks prior to the party is recommended. This will allow guests the time they need to RSVP. It is very important to have directions enclosed.

11. A theme should be considered to add a nice touch and keep it from being boring. Having some fun decorations or even costumes can bring an exciting element to the party.

12. Try to greet each guest personally and when they leave give them a big thanks. The host should never leave during the event and needs to be taking care of the needs of the guests.

baby shower etiquette
correcto_jonas asked:


This friend told me she will throw this surprise baby shower for women only. She asked for my help on getting the contact info in order to send the invitations. I gladly collaborated on that as well as offered my help on any other things she need, buy I don’t know: Should I get more involved or not?
Thank you for your help!